Welcome to Raw Intimacy ❤️🔥 - a weekend to discover a new form of GBTQ brotherhood that embraces our Eros as a source of profound connection and healing.
❧ How do we, as gay/bi/trans/queer men* move out of competition with one another, and into a brotherhood that celebrates our uniqueness and honors our hearts?
❧ How do we challenge a culture that insists that we aren’t enough? And in doing so, discover a deep sense of belonging, connection and camaraderie.
❧ How do we find healing for the wounded parts of us that feel on the outside - of groups, of gay/queer culture, of our community?
❧ How do we deeply resource and find support from one another instead of using each other for validation?
Raw Intimacy is a weekend for gay/bi/trans/queer men+ to connect from the heart and discover the possibility of queer brotherhood.
We do this by exploring intimacy, eroticism, pleasure and boundaries with an emphasis on Truth in connection. Truth is seeking to unfold the many layers what is *actually* happening between two people. Not just our stories of what we think is going on, but how are we feeling? Where do we feel touched? Where do we feel drawn, or scared? Where do we feel old scripts of competition and scarcity emerging?
Many queer people grew up feeling different from the other kids and feeling ashamed of it, or that we had to hide who we were in order to be accepted.
Even after coming out, we carry these psychological wounds into adulthood, and into a gay culture that emphasizes that we need to look and act a certain way in order to be accepted or desired. This leads to competitive dynamics that many men feel in gay spaces, triggering old wounds of not belonging or not being enough.
Raw Intimacy is a weekend to change the script. It’s a weekend to find safety in your vulnerability. And to find belonging simply for being human.
This is a weekend for those who want more from their connections - their friendships, loverships, intimate and romantic relationships. More depth, more realness, more openness, and more love.
*We warmly welcome all cis and trans men, as well as individuals with other gender identities within the queer masculine spectrum, regardless of body type, appearance, or disability.
What will you explore?
Practice how to have compassionate boundaries that allow you to be in greater integrity with yourself and others
Practice being more honest with yourself and with others, and discover how greater honesty can lead to more closeness and trust
Learn how to move through uncomfortable feelings and unlock deep and healing intimacy
Engage in relational practices that allow you to express yourself more authentically, and finally be seen and appreciated for the fullness of who you are
Learn how to move from your mental stories (which often keep us feeling separated from others) and into the felt Truth of your experience, unlocking more freedom in your connections
Get to explore sensually and erotically with other participants in a way that brings consciousness to your relational patterns that hold you back from getting what you really want
Learn how to move beyond ego games of competition into generous, loving heart-connection with other men*
This event is for you if:
You want to embrace your vulnerability as a portal to profound empowerment, courage and strength
You want to be part of a brotherhood of GBTQ men+ who desire to live in greater integrity and be a force of change for good in the world
You want to move beyond transactional sex/hookups and discover a world of deeper and more meaningful intimacy
You want to move beyond a scarcity mindset in your life and feel deeply connected with other men*
You want to discover a deeper sense of wholeness that holistically integrates your sensuality, sexuality and eroticism
You want to be more aligned with your Truth, embrace your gifts, and live courageously and unapologetically as *YOU*
What if there’s someone there I don’t want to touch (or be touched by)?
Our events prioritise consent. You'll never be obliged to touch or be touched by anyone. We begin the event with exercises that empower you to say "no" both verbally and non-verbally. As facilitators we are here to ensure your safety, so you can have your own experience without worrying about unwanted touch.
While we encourage exploring beyond your usual preferences, it's entirely your choice. As you might in a massage, you may allow yourself to be touched or to touch someone you wouldn’t usually be attracted to. This event is about expanding your experiences beyond the workshop.
If you ever feel uncomfortable, you won't be forced to connect with anyone. Your safety is our priority.
Practicalities
You’re welcome to come as a solo participant or with a partner/lover/+1
Date & Time:
The workshop runs from 10:00-18:30 on Saturday 15 March and 9:30-17:00 on Sunday 16 March
Price:
Tickets are €280 with low income tickets available for €230.
Location:
This workshop will be held at de Ruimte on the Weesperzijde in Amsterdam
Sleeping:
The workshop doesn’t include lodging. There are numerous hotels and bnb’s in the area.
What previous participants said:
❧ "The workshop was a spiritual awakening, a deep understanding of oneself and a beautiful journey with safety, intimacy, heightened sensations and pure connections as your travel company"
❧ "This was our first time participating at an event facilitated by Jason. It was wonderful to observe how a group of men unknown to each other connected emotionally, spiritually and sensually. All guided within the safe space created by Jason who is a master in making people feel confident in showing their vulnerability, needs and openly explore their sexual growth. Looking forward to the next workshop Jason is creating.”
❧ "It was my first time ever participating in a workshop setting like this and first time experience with anything related to tantra. I had no idea what to expect, which made me very anxious. At the same time, I wanted to do the workshop because I'm someone who has a hard time just letting go and felt I needed to explore and test and push my boundaries. During the workshop I pushed through the discomfort I felt and really worked hard to embrace the exercises and commit to doing them to my fullest. I'm so glad I did - I feel open and changed in ways I didn't expect and didn't think were possible. For me, it was profound--and as a pragmatist I don't use words like that lightly. Jason's organization of the weekend and his facilitation were really impressive. We started slow, built connections as a group, and built trust as the intensity of the exercises increased. If you are looking for ways to grow and push yourself, I highly recommend exploring one of Jason's workshops. I'll definitely be doing another soon."
Who’s facilitating?
The event is a facilitated by Jason King. Jason is a Sexological Bodyworker and somatic sex educator. He is passionate about helping people expand their sense of what’s possible in their sex lives. Jason works with individuals and groups to manifest powerfully healing embodied experiences, build community, and embrace our erotic oneness.
Follow Jason on Instagram @embodied_eros
As you are on Jason’s website, you can read more here.
Questions?
Unsure if this is the right event for you? Reach out with a message. I’m happy to have a free short call and discuss if this is the right space for you at this time in your life.